Stop Drifting and Get the Life You Want

Get the Life You Want

Do you have big goals, a plan of action, and the confidence you will achieve your dreams?

Do you daydream about success but don’t really think it’s possible for you?

Do you want to change a wish into a plan?

This week, my wife and I purchased a car. We spent hours researching models, checking safety features, and reading online reviews. After multiple test drives and visits to various dealerships, we finally settled on one she wanted. Then we spent hours more buying it and still more hours learning its various features.

 

“You get what you focus on.” –Daniel Harkavy

 

That’s the way it is when we make a big purchase. I’m sure it’s the same in your home. We do this when planning vacations, too, right? Reading online reviews, choosing hotels, and carefully picking flights or planning a drive. If you’re at the stage where you have a teenager picking a university, you may be experiencing the dizzying array of possibilities. All of it requires time, attention, and careful planning. Whether college, a car, a vacation, or a family event like a wedding, we take the time needed to plan it all out so that we have a memorable experience.

So let me ask you a question.

Do you spend that type of time planning your life?

It seems that many of us go through our lives, accepting what comes, and just “going with the flow.”

What if there was a better way?

 

“People lose their way when they lose their why.” –Michael Hyatt

 

Michael Hyatt has just written a book with Daniel Harkavy that will help you design the life you want.

Living ForwardMichael is the CEO of Intentional Leadership, an online leadership development company. He is the former CEO of Thomas Nelson Publishers and also the NYT bestselling author of Platform: Get Noticed in a Noisy World. You may have heard his popular This is Your Life podcast.

Michael also is a close personal friend. He encouraged me to join Twitter and start blogging. I’ve watched him grow his business, but more importantly I’ve watched how he lives his life.

Which is why I am confident you will enjoy his newest book, Living Forward: A Proven Plan to Stop Drifting and Get the Life You Want. Though I don’t know his co-author, Daniel Harkavy, I know he was Michael’s coach. His company, Building Champions, has helped many people get on track to accomplish their goals.

I recently asked Michael a few questions about the new book.

 

Design Your Life

What is a life plan?

A life plan is a brief document where you establish your personal priorities and articulate the steps you need to get from where you currently are to where you want to be. It’s a living document that you write yourself that gives you a view of your life.

 

“The man without purpose is like a ship without a rudder.” –Thomas Carlyle

 

Tell us about your own experience with Life Planning.

Daniel introduced it to me when he was my coach in the early 2000s. Before I created a Life Plan, I spent way too much time at work. That was one area where I did plan, where I was intentional, but I was really drifting in other areas of my life, including my health, family, community life, and everything else that is truly important to me. Life Planning has been transformational for me.

 

“There is no such thing as a compartmentalized life.” –Michael Hyatt

 

Begin With the End in Mind

Don’t Listen to the Dream Killers

Don’t Listen

You have a burning desire to be something, to do something. You want to make a mark on the world.

Maybe it’s to start a business or get a promotion. Perhaps your dream is to write a book or finally lose weight.

All around you are the voices of discouragement. No sooner do you announce your dream than you hear them drowning out your inner voice.

 

“What makes you think you can do that?”

“Really? Are you qualified?”

 

Some of them mean well.

Others only feel insecure, threatened that your dream will shift your current status and usher in unknown change.

They criticize you. Tell you that you can’t do it. They want you to give up. They want to keep you where you are.

Too many people seem to revel in killing dreams. Whether you let them or not is up to you.

 

“Every great dream begins with a dreamer.” –Harriet Tubman

 

Stay the Course

There’s art inside of you. It builds up like a pressure valve. Letting it out is the only relief, the only way to release the tension.

Don’t listen. Change the channel. Walk away.

That inner voice inside of you is speaking potential. That vision of yours is dimmed only by allowing the dream killers to steal your hope.

Don’t listen to the dream killers.

You have the ability. You have the potential. Your dream is within your grasp.

 

“Do not let dream killers dim your vision and steal your joy.” –Skip Prichard

 

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