Reflections on the Life of Robert Goolrick


In Memoriam of Robert Goolrick

I have conversations with more authors than I can remember and have learned many lessons from these interactions.

Some of these authors travel along a spiral that transcends the interview, becoming acquaintances, mentors, and counselors. Traveling to the epicenter of the spiral would be a few who are the rarest of rare and become good personal friends.

One of those special and rare friends recently passed away. His name was Robert Goolrick, though I called him Robbie. I learned about this because I was personally cited in a Washington Post article sharing the news. Whenever I traveled close by, I made it a point to see him. We would talk about publishing, writing, marketing, and the industry before turning to the personal: tragedy, affliction, triumph, fears, hopes. He was never guarded, always open, always willing to share his perspective.


The Importance of Friendship

One of his texts to me during the pandemic was typical, tearing through niceties. “In this plague I often feel the need and the importance of drawing your friends close to you and knowing that they are well and healthy. I hope that is true for you and for all those you love and that we can talk soon.” Another said, “I wish I heard from you as often as I think of you,” which was not the admonition it seems but his way of saying that he thinks about me often.Skip Prichard, Robbie Goolrick

I love this one: “Where in the world are you! I hope safe at home. If you get a minute, give me a call. I need one of your patented pep talks.” If he needed something, he did not shy away from asking.

His texts, like his conversations, were also heaping with servings of positivity and encouragement: “I wish you every joy. May light and love rain down on your house today and every day forever.”


Turning Pain Into Strength

Robert Goolrick was a New York Times bestselling author of some amazing books: A Reliable WifeHeading Out to Wonderful, The End of the World as We Know It, and The Dying of the Light.

If you only know him as an author, you really should know more of his story (scroll down to learn more). Few people have ever gone through the pain he did and endured. He was raped as a child by his father, verbally abused, lived in squalor, was addicted to drugs, sex, cutting, and still somehow managed to become an advertising executive. Fired, he turned to writing and started a second career.

The depth of his emotional pain showed up in his writing and his characters.

Authors who read his books are not only reading the story but studying how a master crafts sentences and paragraphs. Here are a few of his quotes (but keep reading below!)


Quotes by Robert Goolrick








When I wrote my book, The Book of Mistakes: 9 Secrets to Creating a Successful Future, I was nervous about sending it to Robbie. Not only because I knew a master writer would be reading it, but because I knew that he would give an unadulterated, truthful assessment. Once, he sent me a text after seeing me in a photo, “One piece of friendly advice. Get yourself some pants that fit!!!”

His response to my book stunned me and the publisher prominently put his quote on the book. Here’s what he wrote:

I thanked him and said that it was just like him to write a blurb that was better than the book itself.

Robert Goolrick Dinner


It’s easy to say that Robbie will be missed. Our life is a tapestry of relationships, and there are those rare bright colors that sharpen our focus and inspire creative flow. He was one of those for me.

Robbie, I will miss your warmth and depth. I will end with your own text to me: I wish I heard from you as often as I think of you.



If you want to learn more about his life and overcoming hardships, this video interview is where to start:


For more information, see A Reliable Wife, The Dying of the Light, Heading Out to Wonderful, and The End of the World as We Know It.




Image Credit: Mohit Khatri

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