5 Goal Setting Lessons From My Garage

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Of all the rooms in our home, the one that accumulates clutter the fastest seems to be the garage.  Maybe it’s because we pull the car in quickly.  We’re only in the space for a few seconds.  Maybe it’s because it’s not air-conditioned or heated, making it a real chore to clean in most months.  Or maybe it’s because the items that are placed there are the ones in limbo.  You know what I mean.  You can’t throw them out easily or you would.  That piece of furniture that holds some memories but doesn’t fit the décor of the home.  The box of old magazines holding some articles you marked for some reason or another.  A nice shelf lined with old shoes that may still fit but have long passed the glory days.  Of course, you knew at the time you dropped these items in this state of limbo that they would never return to inside the house.

The clutter built up so slowly that it was unnoticed.  We didn’t talk about it like we would if something inside needed to be cleaned up.

I’m guessing that most everyone has a space like this.  Last weekend, I spent a marathon cleaning session in the garage.  The shoes ended up donated to Soles4Souls.  The clothes went to Goodwill.  Other items were sent for recycling or to the trash.

I worked non-stop with my characteristic obsession.  When I have a goal in mind, I can’t seem to stop.  I don’t want to stop.  I even worked through most of the night in order to get it all done.

In the end, I surprised my wife.  We walked into the garage and felt good.  A clean, uncluttered space brings a peace that is difficult to explain.  Now when I pull into the garage, I am calmer.  And that entry way into the home is the first thing that helps set your mood when you return home.

1.  Set a big goal.  Most experts will tell you to start with something small.  Start with a single shelf.  From that success, you will gain confidence.  That’s not for me.  I like to set the task and go for it all at once.  I think it depends on your own personality, so know yourself.

Set your goals high, and don’t stop until you get there.  -Bo Jackson

2.  Start.  Just do something.  For me, many of the things placed there were the ones that were in limbo.  What to do with them wasn’t easy which is why they were sitting there.

3.  Develop a test.  I always use these three questions as a test:

  • Is this something I would want movers to box, pack and move into a new house?  This works regardless of whether or not you ever plan to move.
  • Is this something I have used in the last year?  If not, the only time to take care of it is now.
  • Is this something that could be used by someone else?  If it could, and I’m not using it, I’m depriving someone else.

4.  You must be unrelenting in your passion and drive.  The test works when your mindset is focused.  Use the energy and the mood to do the uncomfortable.

5.  When you are done, go one step further than you normally would.  In my case, we are planning to repaint the garage.  That will reinforce the good feelings, and it will make it more likely that we will keep out the clutter.

Now, whatever that place is for you where you keep the things in limbo, I encourage you to take action on it soon.  You will be celebrating and feeling more peace when you do.

And the lessons I learned from cleaning out my garage really apply to all goals:

Set a big goal.  Take action.  Be honest by developing a test for yourself.  Be relentless.  Take it one step further.

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  • Saritha

    Going one step ahead surely is a big one for anyone who is leading. 

    My cupboard was a mess for 3 months before i decided to go ahead make space for new things and junk old ones. Always thought my kids would not allow me to do it peacefully. That held me back from working on it. Surprised and super happy that they also joined in helping me clean and reorganise everything.  So involving them was going one step ahead for me. Now my 4 yr old daughter tells me “Next time you’re cleaning, I’m helping”. The choice of involving others in a decision is to make it work. One need not be superwoman or superman to do it all by yourself. Seek help when required. It just enriches you.Thanks Skip for this post:) Really gave a different perspective to my thoughts and line of action! 

    • http://www.skipprichard.com/ Skip Prichard

      That’s a great point. Some goals are much more easily reached with others. Social goals. And smart to involve the kids early!

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  • Michelle Colon-Johnson

    My office was my garage for about 3 years. I finally hired someone to come organize my office and gave her a list of things I wanted done. I told her that I did not want to tell her how to organize– that I was comfortable asking her where things were, after she was done. I had to learn how to delegate, and be happy with the outcome. Now my garage is my garage. I think I might need my girl Jessica to come back one more time. I will say my office sure looks nice! :O)

    • http://www.skipprichard.com/ Skip Prichard

      Smart delegation of tasks is important to success. We all have strengths and weaknesses, and should focus our time on what we do best. That lets someone else help us where we are not as strong. Thanks, Michelle, for adding to the conversation.

  • http://danblackonleadership.com/ Dan Black

    The time to clean or do is often quicker than we first think. I find myself not cleaning because of the amount of time it would require, only to find out it took less time to lean than I thought.

    This can be true with cleaning as well as doing some of the important but undesirable leadership tasks.

    • http://www.skipprichard.com/ Skip Prichard

      I have to admit this wasn’t a quick task, but it was necessary. Yes, leadership tasks left undone can be the undoing of even the best people. Thanks for adding your thoughts, Dan.

  • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

    Haha, Skip… Your garage sounds a lot like mine. We’re rarely in it. Heck, we don’t even park our vehicles in it.

    I’d have to say our garage and our basement are the two areas that need to be cleaned out. So easy to toss stuff into those areas and forget about it.

    • http://www.skipprichard.com/ Skip Prichard

      But not anymore. Now it’s perfect.

  • http://cindyhirch.com/ Cindy Hirch

    I dislike the feeling of having a noose around my neck – so it serves me well when I can just move to get something done and not let it drag out. Clutter drives me crazy, and I like the feeling of having something clean, so that is always a motivator for me.

    • http://www.skipprichard.com/ Skip Prichard

      Cindy I’m with you: just get it done !

  • http://intentionaltoday.com/ Ngina Otiende

    I really don’t like cleaning.. But I like order! I like quick access, saving time. I dislike clutter (a whole lot!). So I do things that i don’t necessarily enjoy to get results that I love.

    • http://www.skipprichard.com/ Skip Prichard

      That’s a good leadership lesson.

  • Michelle

    Do you rent yourself out…’cause I have a couple rooms I’d love to let you loose in!

    • http://www.skipprichard.com/ Skip Prichard

      Run a seminar on goal setting. That way you make money an get your whole house clean!

  • Ned May

    Increasingly I find the need to perform this cleanup on my digital life as well. Storage space is cheap but clarity is priceless. Great tips. I may modify step 1 but I’ll definitely adopt Step 3 – Develop a Test!

    • http://www.skipprichard.com/ Skip Prichard

      The digital clean up can be much harder. So easily out of sight, out of mind. And, when you finish, you don’t have that same sense of accomplishment, do you?

  • Steve Pate

    You’ve provided another good lesson. By the way, my version of Step 3 (develop a test) is, “If I lost this item, would I replace it?”

    • http://www.skipprichard.com/ Skip Prichard

      That’s a great add!

  • http://www.lincolnparks.com Lincoln Parks

    My desk is my garage Skip. My wife is the organizer and she always has me cleaning my garage which is my desk. I love the fact that you develop a test first to evaluate if this is something that can be done more efficient. When you apply a principle which is so simple towards a task such as your garage it will also translate to other areas of your life like in business and friendships. Imagine if we evaluated our time, business relationships and friends like that? Interesting thought.

    • http://www.skipprichard.com/ Skip Prichard

      Lincoln, I agree that it does spread. The momentum it creates translates to many other areas of your life. Thanks for sharing!

    • http://intentionaltoday.com/ Ngina Otiende

      Lincoln, you and my hubby would be ‘best-friends-in-clutter’ :) His desk (and other random tops) are his garage :)