The Last Handwritten Letter

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The other day I wrote about the power of the handwritten note.  It’s a fading art.  In a growing digital universe, it’s rare to receive a scripted letter any more.  (As a tip for marketers or for anyone who craves differentiation, it’s a great way to stand out.)

Generations from now, what will be left of our writing?  I’m not sure.  I’ve had friends unexpectedly pass away and wished I still had some of the emails that were routinely deleted.  You could argue that today’s technology will ensure the endurance of the written word.  That’s also true.  With the ease of copying files and digital lockers, we won’t likely lose a manuscript to history.  Perhaps the casual email and note, which at the time seems insignificant, is in a different category.  I think much of what appears mundane at the time will be lost.

When I was a kid, my grandfather had a prized possession.  His father’s diary.  It was written in World War I as he crossed France into Germany.  I’m not sure why he kept it so confidential, but if you were granted access to read it, it was a special honor.  He told me that I would inherit it when he died.  When it finally came into my possession, I carefully stored it away.  The other day I took it out and read it.  As I held the pages, and looked at the neat cursive writing, I imagined what it was like when he penned the words.  How scared he must have been.  How young he was.  What dedication and duty to serve your country, no questions asked.

Generations from now, what will be left of our writing?

And here I am reading it casually on a comfortable sofa, safe in the suburbs.  It’s because of the sacrifice of our vets that this is possible.  Today I’m treasuring the chance to hold the actual paper he did.  I feel awed.  Connected.

Now, I’m no defender of the past.  I like my digital gadgets and the interconnected world we live in.  It’s hard to explain to kids today what it was like before everyone had a cell phone.  When you talk about life before the Internet, well, you may as well be talking about the Dark Ages.  The benefits of technology and our modern conveniences are clear.  And yet in my own selfish way, I’m glad my great-grandfather didn’t have the ability to email, didn’t have my iPad, and couldn’t Skype the family at home.  If he had, I wouldn’t have the opportunity to get to know him in the same way.  And now I’m beginning to understand the respect my own grandfather had for this diary.  It wasn’t just about the words, but about the man, about the service, about the legacy.

 

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  • Matthieu Croce

    I think that handwritten notes and letters are a lost art in our culture today and I think we should do all that we can to promote their return to prominence!

  • http://www.skipprichard.com/ Skip Prichard

    This story struck me:  After decades, the letter he wrote to propose to his wife of nearly 60 years is found and returned. http://huff.to/Hbxsh4

  • Deeob

    My most treasured possessions are notes and letters that my husband wrote me from the very beginning of our relationship 54 years ago. His passing this past week have made them even more treasured!
    When e-mail started jack, being the prolific writer he was, enthusiasticly e-mailed our three children who were scattered around the United States. They were such fun, passionate, love filled emails I would tell him, “send me a copy”!! And I have hundreds of them to now put in books to give our children!!

    • http://www.skipprichard.com/ Skip Prichard

      I feel honored to have known your husband. He was a remarkable man, who quite obviously had a huge impact on all who knew him. His legendary humor and quick wit will be missed. I also received some of his funny emails, and treasure them.
      Most of all, when I think of him, I think about his comments about Michael’s singing. He freely expressed his feelings and the depth of his love for his son. I can’t tell you what an impact that had on me.
      May you find comfort in the days ahead. I know the journey ahead will not be easy. You will be in my thoughts and prayers as you venture into this new season.

  • http://www.beaconlifechristianstore.com/ Di B

    Thank you for your wonderful post – especially in the days of “everything digital”.  Looking at my 95 year old Grandmother’s beautiful stylised cursive writing in a card she gave  me many years ago, is like stepping back into history. She came from an era when letters were a treasured treat in one’s daily life. This dear Lady also now has dementia but I hope to pass on such precious items as  keepsakes for my children-her Great-grandchildren.

    • http://www.skipprichard.com/ Skip Prichard

      It is like stepping into history. And I believe it is even more treasured to receive these notes today because of how rare it is. Pass on your own legacy and write someone today.

  • http://www.my10acres.info/ Jerry Ward

    Wow this got me thinking.  I don’t know if I’ve ever written a note to my children and very few to my wife of 20+ years.  I will have to consider this going forward.

    • http://www.skipprichard.com/ Skip Prichard

      Jerry, write it today. It will take 10 minutes….

  • Deb G

    I loved this piece Skip – it is so relevant in today’s digital world. I lost my husband to cancer and most of his ‘love’ notes to me where by text or email – some of which I kept purely because I hadn’t had time to delete them. But the ones that mean the most are the written notes I kept in his handwriting.

    • http://www.skipprichard.com/ Skip Prichard

      Deb, I’m so sorry about your loss. I’m glad you have the treasures of his thoughts on paper.

  • CarolK

    I love my gadgets too but there is nothing quite like a handwritten note or letter. They were painstakingly written and often expressed so much. This is one thing from our pasts that I wish still remained.

    • http://www.skipprichard.com/ Skip Prichard

      I do as well, Carol, and the great thing is we can bring it back anytime we choose! Harder to bring back the horse & buggy. :)

  • Cari Reagan

    My grandmother suffers from dementia and as a family, we have written her letters capturing all of our favorite memories of she and my grandfather.  She enjoys reading them over and over and it is a brand new experience for her each time.

    • http://www.skipprichard.com/ Skip Prichard

      Beautiful!

  • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

    I have handwritten notes from my wife that I treasure. They’re from our time dating and are a joy to re-read. They would not be the same in a digital form.

    I need to get back in the habit of journaling. I feel it would be a great blessing to my wife and children(when we have them) to have something to look back and see my reflections.

    • http://www.skipprichard.com/ Skip Prichard

      Joe, I’m sure your journals would be full of powerful information. You are so talented at what you do.