Room for One More

Photo courtesy of iStockphoto/azndc

Photo courtesy of iStockphoto/azndc.

Hanging in the family room of my childhood home was a needlepoint that my oldest sister carefully crafted. It was a picture of eight owls on a tree limb, and underneath had the words “there’s always room for one more.” That saying was almost a family mission statement. My parents decided to open the family home to anyone who had a need. Some people would live with us for years and became as close as another sibling. Others would stay a night or two, needing help with a problem or a place to sleep. I have many interesting stories and experiences from this unique way to grow up. I learned more about people and perspective than I could have imagined. I learned to respect individuals as they were. The problem that brought someone to our doorstep didn’t define them, and neither did their race or religion.

Watching someone leave our home, I would often think about whether she would be successful or be limited by problems. Why would two people, both facing similar difficult challenges, have such different outlooks? Why would one person want to grow and develop while another would be blaming everyone else for his lot in life? The study of success, personal development, motivation and leadership all became passions of mine. Throughout the years, I have read every book I can on these topics. My love of books expanded over the years to include almost every category you can imagine, business to fiction.

My career path has led me into difficult situations a number of times. Over the years, I’ve come to realize I actually love turning around companies or dealing with industry challenges. It has not always been easy, and I’ve made my share of mistakes along the way. Today, I am CEO of Ingram Content Group, one of the largest companies in the book industry. My passion for reading and sharing great books is fulfilled, as is dealing with challenges as the industry migrates from a printed book to one embracing physical and digital content.

After the encouragement of many friends, I have decided to start this blog to talk about all of the topics I love and to share great books and authors. I hesitated many times, thinking that there are millions of blogs. Why would anyone want to visit another one? In the end, the image of that needlepoint and its message struck me. There is always room for one more. I hope you enjoy it and join the conversation in coming months.

We Always Have Room for One More

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  • http://www.MichelleColonJohnson.com/ Michelle Colon-Johnson

    One of my favorite posts of yours. Perhaps because it goes to show one that no matter what our life is — Everyone has a story.

    • http://www.skipprichard.com/ Skip Prichard

      Thanks, Michelle. I’m always fascinated to learn people’s stories because it helps us avoid potential pitfalls and follow the steps that work. And I’ve enjoyed getting to know yours through your own blog and social media interactions.

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  • Dawn

    You warm my heart as you shared from your early days the influence that led you into the field you now partake in. I’m excited to see where God will lead you and who will enter your path next I’m looking forward to your questions more so than any other blog since I’m sure your questions will be fresh and give us a deeper understanding of the true character of the people you will interview.

  • Michael Stoeckle

    Ok, you hooked me with this very clever metaphor and interesting perspective on life and the study of human characteristics. I am a hopeless romantic and my wife and I are unshakable optimists. I am always interested in reading, understanding and discussing the subjects of leadership and personal development. I have had a good measure of success, but at 54 years of age I continue to insist that I am a work in progress in my spiritual, personal and professional life. I look forward to reading your blog posts and discovering new ideas and ways to encourage my children (and myself) to have a passion for personal growth, leadership and success in all areas of their lives as they begin to cut their own path and put their signature on the world.
    Michael Stoeckle

    • http://www.skipprichard.com/ Skip Prichard

      At 54, you have so much ahead of you. Look at all the people who didn’t even know their impact until later in life. What an exciting time we are living in to make a difference. Thank you, Michael.

  • ZachBaker

    Skip, I am excited about this blog. I have missed seeing you and your amazing family. Though we are miles apart it will be great to keep up with you via your blog. God bless.

  • David Stone

    The one we’ve been waiting for.

    Welcome to the world of blogging, Skip. Like you, I read a lot, but there always is room for one more. I’m looking forward to this.

    David

  • CarolK

    Difficult Challenges

    Skip said “Watching someone leave our home, I would often think about whether she would be successful or be limited by problems. Why would two people, both facing similar difficult challenges, have such different outlooks? Why would one person want to grow and develop while another would be blaming everyone else for his lot in life?”

    My daughter and I were discussing this same topic just the other day. We both wonder why some people are able to overcome the odds and others fold and blame everyone for their plight.

    Perhaps you’d suggest a book that you found helpful in the exploration of this topic. We’d be interested in reading more on the subject.

    • http://www.applemanshapiro.com Linda Appleman Shapiro

      Response to Skip … and to Carol

      Carol might appreciate reading the book A STROKE OF GENIUS. Of course, as a psychotherapist for 30 years, I’d have to say that the greatest challenge for anyone in my field is to identify how people are wired (meaning whatever genetic predispostion(s)they may have inherited and how that is helping or impeding their lives and their decision- making processes). Our ultimate goal is to help give them tools to make better choices and to accept responsibility for the choices they do make.

      Having said that and having felt the need to respond as I just have to your questioner, Carol, I look forward to reading your blog and wish you the very best of luck! My guess is you’ll find the experience to be both challenging and enjoyable.

      And there is, as you know, always room for one more! Having blogged for 3+ years and having my memoir printed by LIGHTNING SOURCE (and currently considering to have L.S. re-print an up-dated version, along with a book of essays), I wish you all the very best of luck, especially at this holiday time … and the start of what I hope will be a year of healing for people around the world.

      Again, I look forward to following your blog.

      Best wishes,
      Linda Appleman Shapiro, http://www.applemanshapiro.com

      • http://www.applemanshapiro.com Linda Appleman Shapiro

        A correction to my previous comment -

        Sorry, but in rushing to respond to you while in between patients, I provided an incorrect title for the book I was recommending.
        The correct title is “MY STROKE OF GENIUS.” The author is Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor.

    • http://www.skipprichard.com/ Skip Prichard

      Carol, my goal through this blog is to provide just those types of inspirational books and thoughts. There are many great ones depending on exactly what you are looking for. What resonates with one may not work for another, so it takes some time. Some people can find inspiration in a book, others a poem, still others find it in the lyrics of a song. Wherever we find it, the important thing is that we keep searching….